KIBABII UNIVERSITY 

Fundamental Moral Principles of Marriage in the Friends Church: A Study of Christian Values and Secular Influences in Trans Nzoia County, Kenya

KIBU Author(s)

Margaret Matisi
Rispah Wepukhulu

Abstract

This study examines the fundamental moral principles of marriage as advanced by the Friends Church in Trans Nzoia County, Kenya, amid growing secular influences. Using a descriptive research design, data was collected from 334 respondents including pastors, church elders, married individuals, and community leaders through interviews, questionnaires, and focus group discussions. The findings reveal that marriage in the Friends Church is primarily understood as a sacred covenant before God between one man and one woman, emphasizing lifelong commitment, mutual love, and spiritual growth. Traditional moral principles include faithfulness, rejection of divorce, biblical submission, and Christian child-rearing. However, secular influences have significantly impacted these principles, leading to increased tolerance for diverse beliefs, declining emphasis on strict moral teachings, and changing attitudes toward marriage permanence. The study concludes that while the Friends Church maintains its theological foundation, it faces considerable challenges from secularism that threaten traditional marriage values. The church must strengthen its teachings, enhance youth engagement, and develop robust strategies to preserve Christian marriage principles while addressing contemporary challenges.